Wednesday, October 31, 2012

tidbits

tidbits.


hey blog peeps! i decided to start a little post called tidbits (ooh, you fancy) to share with you guys the little things that happen that don't quite warrant a blog post.  i think its the small details in life that are more fun to read later....so here goes!



-this weekend we went to magnolia to spend time with our friends travis and amber. they are always a great time...but this weekend, they had their neighbors over too, who have 4 unruly boys.  i mean, these boys are a MESS.  travis had soaked some gummi bears in vodka (yes, its as good as it sounds) and one of the boys came upstairs to where the girls were crafting and said "WHOS HUSBAND PUT ALCOHOL IN THE GUMMIES???"  needless to say, i died laughing (*parent of the year award).  then he went on to say that the "bald" guy downstairs gets really really loud when he puts that beer in his mouth.  i figured out he was talking about oliver. ha. i coulda told you that, kid!

-i have migraines pretty regularly, and get them once every month or two. they arent as bad as they were when i was in college, but still enough to knock me out for a few hours. i had one yesterday and just now my boss came in to check on me.  (he's a guy).  i told him it was better today and i think my migraines are tied to my monthly cycle.  UM WTF??  why did i tell my MALE boss that????  chronic oversharing.

-i painted the backside of our kitchen island this weekend, where the barstools go.  it was SO not a big deal! i may now be a little overconfident in painting, but it took no time at all to prep and paint.  literally, from start to finish maybe 3 hours tops.  now i am looking around the house at what else i can paint!  too bad we have like 18 foot ceilings everywhere.  thats going to be interesting.

-my moms annual race for the cure is this weekend.  we have a kids area, silent auction, DJ, food, the works!  usually i volunteer for the silent auction area, but this year i am going to walk it.  with the wedding and the new job, i really didnt want to commit to another event, so i am excited about just getting to participate like a normal person.  getting up at 3AM doesnt sound so great this saturday.  :) sorry mom!

-i made tortilla soup last night, and i must have not added enough liquid or something, because it was literally like a casserole in a pot.  it got all gummy and mushy, no liquid at all.  oliver was nice and didnt say anything, but i think it may have to go in the garbage tonight.  gross.


thats all for now.  til next time, happy halloween!

kristin


Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Fight Night Monday

Typical argument in the Willingham household....

Oliver (from the bathroom, ready to hop in the shower, naked):  WHERE'S THE SOAP???

Kristin: ummmm....I reorganized the bathroom.  under the sink?

Oliver: NO!!! WHY DID YOU MOVE IT? WHERE IS THE FREAKING SOAP?

Kristin:  Don't yell at me mister!!  I was trying to make this house more organized... (in my head....oh crap.  where the hell did i put that soap.  hmmm....think organization.)

Oliver (now naked in the hallway, looking through the hall closet): Seriously, Kristin! Why do you spend all your time hiding things from me?

Kristin (getting defensive) :  I DONT! I was CLEANING!!

Oliver: Fine. I give up.  I'll wash myself with your bathsalts. 

Kristin: NO!!!!  I NEED those!!!  (Remembering...) Oh yeah! I put the soap under the GUEST bathroom sink!

Oliver(back in shower): Sigh.




After the shower...



Oliver: Baby, you know I love you. But doesn't it make more sense for OUR extra soap to be in OUR bathroom?

Kristin: I don't want to talk about it.




The End.


 

KRISTIN

Thursday, October 18, 2012

honeymoon

jamaica, here we come mon!


on the monday morning after the wedding, oliver and i woke up at the buttcrack of dawn to get to the airport for our flight to jamaica.  we were EXHAUSTED and it was literally dark outside as we were driving there, but we were so excited that it was worth getting up early.  my parents took both of us and my uncle sam (he was flying back to california) to IAH for our flights, and then it was just me and the hubs on our first married trip! 


when we were checking in, oliver checked the seat options to see if we were sitting together and if maybe we could move to the front of the plane.  we had purchased first class seats for the way back from jamaica, but on the way there we were planning on roughing it in coach.  BUT there was an option to upgrade, so we figured, what the heck?? and we ended up with first class tickets all the way. it was quite fabulous. 

we had an hour or so layover in atlanta, then we were en route to the island of jamaica.  we had actually been gifted our honeymoon for christmas of 2011 from oliver's brother ian, and we were super excited to get to montego bay and check into our sandals. 

when we arrived, we did the customs line (which made for interesting people watching) and went to the sandals area of the airport to wait.  they had drinks there for the guests waiting for the busses, so of course we had to partake.


our bus arrived and took us to the resort, where we checked in and got settled.  it turned out that our butler rooms were overbooked so we got a free upgrade to the ultra luxury royal beachfront suite room.  it came with an entire stocked bar, had a walkout patio that led straight to the beach, and 24 hour butler service. 

after we got settled in and had some champagne on our porch, we went over to the spa for our couples massages.  again, the original massage we had booked was full so we got offered a free upgrade to either beach massages or serenity garden massages.  we had walked past the beach massage tables on our way to the spa and they were in the middle of everything and not private at all.  since we were going to be laying on tables naked except for a thin white sheet, we opted for the garden massage.  it was in a very lush garden right behind the spa and had a house with the two massage tables on it.  we had to fill out an information card about ourselves and how much we bruised, sensitivity, allergies, etc. and then we were asked how hard we wanted the massage.  since it was my first, i decided to go light/medium with my massuse.  oliver wanted something a little more hardcore so he selected deep tissue for his intensity level. 

we got undressed and put on our robes and walked out to the little garden hut.  we were introduced to our massuse ladies--mine was probably 5'0'' and 120lbs soaking wet.  olivers lady....was BIG.  not fat or anything, just roughly the size and height of a linebacker. i was seriously worried for him at that point. 

we wrapped up our massages and went to our room to relax and get ready for dinner.  we met our first butler (we had two for the week) and went out for italian food that night. 

we got into a regular schedule during the week:
-breakfast on our patio
-feed the cats their morning breakfast (we had semi-tame cats that came around--momma, fluffy tail, and I cant remember the third one!  so sad!)
- go to the beach OR go on a scuba adventure
-lunch on the beach
-drink/nap/read
-pool
-bath/shower
-dinner
-drink

we were usually in bed by 11 each night, which is surprisingly early for me, and up around 8-8:30 every morning.  oliver's favorite part of each day was breakfast on our patio.  since we had the butler room, each night we would request breakfast to be set up out there.  we got pretty spoiled waking up to 3 course meals each day.  our kitties got spoiled too--they each had about 2 creamers in the morning and then another 2 apiece for their afternoon snacks.  :) 

we did a couple of excursions throughout the week also.  the biggest thing that we did was take the scuba certification class and got certified!  we had an AWESOME dive instructor, termi, and he took his time with us, making sure we were comfortable in the water and with the safety techniques.  through the certification process, we ended up going for 3 dives, and the 2nd was our cert. dive.  it was us and termi, and we had to perform all of the safety measures at about 40 feet below the surface.  (lose your mask, lose your breathing apparatus, share your breathing with your partner, etc).  once we were certified, we got to go on a long, relaxing dive with just us and termi.  it was awesome!  BUT once we got back to the surface, we realized that we were going to be late for our fishing expedition.  not to worry! termi called in a private speed boat that came and brought us back to shore.  we seriously felt like celebrities, because our butler, tasha, met us on the deck with our clothes and our fishing trip waiver, and she also had a piece of pizza for us to eat.  then termi took all of our dive equipment back for us and cleaned it up while we hopped aboard the fishing boat!



termi checking our tanks

our fishing boat

termi making sure we made it to our fishing trip!


oliver caught a fish!  we got it mounted


we also: went to climb these crazy falls (Dunns Falls), went to a dolphin adventure show, swam with stingrays, petted nurse sharks, drank WAY too much, and generally had a fabulous time.  jamaica was awesome--we loved everyone at the resort, made friends with people who worked there, and really enjoyed the beautiful country.  i would definitely go back! 




see ya'll next time, mon!

kristin

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

60th birthday surprise

the big man turns 60

this weekend was a pretty big deal.  on friday, october 5th, my dad turned 60 years old.  60 years!!!  he was born in 1952.  he lived through the loss of his mom, dad, sister, in-laws, cousins, friends.  he lived through the crazy 60's and 70's, the weird 80's, the slightly less weird 90's, and then the new century of the 2000's.  he has witnessed the birth of 2 girls, and raised 3, has 3 grandchildren, given away all three girls to their husbands.  the list goes on.

so, to document the birth date of a man that has such a profound impact on SO.MANY.LIVES., my mom, sister Bry and I wanted to do something special for him.

so back at the beginning of 2012, when we started throwing ideas together for his birthday, i had read about the pinterest idea of "60 years of memories" where a girl got 60 memories together for her dad's birthday, from family, friends, coworkers, etc, and compiled them for a book for her dad.  we decided to do the same thing for my dad, so the emails, facebook messages, and phone calls started.  every day my mom and sister and i would email each other a number in the subject line. " 7!!! WE HAVE 7!!!!"  or "OMG WE ARE UP TO 15!!! 45 MORE TO GO!!!" on and on until we finally hit 60. 

after the book was underway, we decided that just the book wasnt enough of a surprise for him, so we also threw together a little surprise bday luncheon/BBQ/party on saturday, oct 6.  the plan was for me to call him on thursday and tell him that something suddenly came up for friday night dinner, can he meet us for lunch saturday instead?  so that's what we did, and i could tell he seemed a little bummed that i pushed back his bday dinner to saturday (only because that meant he couldnt go to the deer lease). 

on saturday, a hoarde of family and friends arrived at cypress saloon and we blew up balloons, decorated, put out pictures of dad, and got ready for his arrival with my mom.  finally they got there, and i got them to come back to the hall by telling them oliver went back there for a quick beer.  so we walked in and SURPRISE!!!  my dad was shocked!  he was really excited, and turned to me and said dang you kiddo! 

ha.

then after everyone dug into the BBQ plates we served, cacey and oliver set up the slide show that cacey and my mom had put together.  it started as dad as a kid to the song jeremiah was a bull frog, then went into him with his friends to sharp dressed man, then went into his and my mom's dating life and marriage to mama he's crazy, and then finished with dad being a dad to deeper than the holler (also the song we danced to at the wedding). 

he was very touched and had some tears during the slide show.  (not going to lie, i did too.)  and then after that, we surprised him with the book.  he later told my mom that it was like attending your own funeral--where everyone tells you how much they love you, but not a lot of people ever get to see that in their life.  he loved it so much.  it was so great to be a part of surprising the big man and getting him to see HOW MANY PEOPLE love him soooooo much. 

thanks to everyone who sent a memory, came to the party, or has been a part of my dad's life over the last 60 years.  if you know him, you know he will give anyone the shirt off his back, he is a hard worker, a kind person, welcomes anyone and everyone to his home, fiercely loyal to his family, and puts others first NO MATTER WHAT.  if you don't know him, i hope one day you get to.  he's a pretty awesome dude. and the best dad i've ever known.


love you dad, happy 60th!

Photo by GMA Photography